I’ve made New Years’ resolutions for as long as I can remember. There have been times when I’m so busy that I don’t think of it until the last minute, and then it’s often guilt that spurs it. I mean, if I don’t make a New Year’s resolution, doesn’t that imply I think I’m perfect?
I certainly am not. I can find a number of personal faults that a good New Year’s resolution would help. How many years have I resolved to be more patient with others, to read more, to hand-write thank-you notes, to reach out to friends? And then there’s the diet one. That one’s really old. I’ve made it not only for past New Years, but for birthdays, holidays, even first of the months.
Here’s the problem with resolutions. Every year I make ‘em. Every year I break ‘em. So, what’s the point?
The point is to stop what we’re doing, if only for a minute or two, and take a look at ourselves – physically, intellectually, and emotionally. It’s all about awareness and, yes, maybe trying. The person who can’t find anything to improve upon has to be the most arrogant person on earth.
So go ahead and make those resolutions. Yes, try to keep them, but if you don’t, not to worry. There’s always next year. Life is a work in progress.
Happy New Year, you all!
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My hope is to have a healthy non-eventful 2010…I was happy to see 2009 go. I have no resolution either:) It’s actually freeing not having one to weigh me down. How about continuing with all your healthy habits in the new year. Not picking up new ones. Just keepin’ on with what already works in your life. I think that’s a great one…
my resolution? -cycle more!!! E-cycle all my electronic junk, free-cycle anything I haven’t used, touched, or looked at in the past 6 months, and visit the local recycling center. They have tours! I’m excited
I’ve got to agree with Lia Mack, I was happy to see 2009 go. My resolution, not beat myself up for always breaking them. I’m going to enjoy some birthday cake and then try to have a healthier diet.